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Seriously, Sideline Stress

Stress is a small word that means big trouble, which is why your Spa Editor is writing about it and our Spa Diva absolutely abhors it - wrinkles dahling.

Stress is a normal part of life and we wouldn't accomplish very much without it. However, the big no-no is chronic stress. This is something that we humans were not created for and cannot withstand without some ugly side effects.
 
Did someone say wrinkles? The natural chemicals that serve us well when we are in a fix become toxic when they remain in the body over time. Here are a few examples:

Circulation: Adrenalin released from stress constricts the arteries, increasing blood pressure and laying the foundations for heart disease later
Memory: Stress hormones sharpen the memory in the short term, but harm it in the long term
Depression: Stress chemicals alter the brain chemistry and make you more vulnerable to depression
Immunity: Raised levels of adrenalin and cortisol in the long-term can block white blood cells from doing their job. White blood cells fight infection, but only if you take care of them, and your chances of catching a cold increase with chronic stress. Hence the logic of "burning the candle at both ends"
Diabetes: Chronically elevated levels of cortisol increase fat storage, which causes resistance to insulin, which in turn increases your diabetes risk

Are you at risk from chronic stress? Small changes can make significant improvements.
 
   
   
     
  Discriminate
All worries are not created equal. Separate your mental list of anxieties into two groups, one for those within your control to change, and those that you can do nothing about. Then mentally delete the group of things that you have no power to change and focus on those that you can act on.

Compartmentalize
There is a time and a place for everything, even your worries. Decide what are you going to tackle now, at this very minute, and leave the rest for later. You cannot prepare dinner while sitting on the bus, so let it go for the moment. Keep a physical list so that you don't forget anything. This will also help to keep you from replaying your worry list in your head.

Exercise
Yes, it is boring and you have heard this before. Stress can compound your anxieties which make you even more stressed. Exercise breaks the chicken and egg cycle by actually reducing the levels of stress chemicals in the body. Is there absolutely no time to exercise? Then take the stairs instead of the escalator. Get off one bus stop earlier and walk. If all else fails, lock yourself in the toilet three times a day and stretch for 5 minutes. Anything is better than nothing.

Turn inwards
Find the time, at least once a day, to close your eyes and concentrate on what you hear, feel, smell and taste. If you can't possibly find a moment to grab some privacy or time to yourself, then get thee to the toilet (see above), sit down and close your eyes for 5 minutes. It doesn't matter if it's for a very short time - do it more often rather than for longer.

A problem shared

…is a problem halved. Tell someone about your burdens, be it a friend, mentor, spiritual leader or your diary. Write a letter to yourself or to your journal to communicate how you feel. This will also help to sort through your thoughts and feelings and to see the problem from a higher perspective.

Control your thinking
There are few things as disappointing as failed expectations. How bitter to realize that your loved ones and career are not perfect and will never meet your expectations. There is only one way to avoid failed expectations - keep them few, keep them simple. Learn the difference between expectations and aspirations. Your expectations should be bottom line. If these are not met then you have no business with each other. Your aspirations test the possibilities and allow your dreams to soar. For example, you expect that your partner will be decent and honest, but you aspire to have a romantic who can read your mind and sweep you off your feet.

Relax!
Life is not an emergency. Angst kills your sense of humor and it has been proven that laughter is as good as exercise for eliminating the stress chemicals from your body. And it does wonders for the spirit.

And last but not least, an Angsana Spa treatment can work wonders for even the most confirmed stresspot so don't feel guilty and don't delay - book your treatment today!
 
       
       
       
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